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there's a simple exercise that can help you tune into your authentic self.
Steps:
- Recall the 'you' when you are in a dream during sleep.
- Compare this 'you' with the 'you' you feel right now. Confirm that they are the same.
- Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Count to 20 in your mind.
- From the perspective of this 'you,' how do you feel right now? What emotions are you experiencing, and what thoughts are going through your mind?
- Acknowledge these feelings and emotions by saying "there is" in your mind. For example, "there is boredom," "I forgot the count," or "I feel a sensation in my stomach."
I believe this method is the best way to address and fulfill our deep-seated need for acceptance and recognition. Speaking of topics that satiate these deficiencies, a concrete example is how it allowed me to experientially grasp the content described in the following link, particularly at Stage 6: The Unitive or Ironist Stage.
参考:【自我の発達:包容力を増してゆく9つの段階/スザンヌ・クック=グロイター】 https://integraljapan.net/articles/JTA2018EgoDevelopment.htm
Furthermore, this led to insights related to the scope, purpose, and associated concepts of what we call 'communication'.
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